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Everyone has a lot of questions and I’m happy to answer them.  I understand people have genuine curiosity and although some think they’re being rude, I don’t. I think you just want to know. And i appreciate that. Sometimes it’s hard for me to, but I want to share as much as possible. It seems to have helped people so I’ll continue to answer questions or share my story as long as that is the case. Life Insurance: GET IT. If you don’t have it, GET IT NOW if you have any ability to do so. You never know what’s going to happen and you never want to leave your family with either no way to get daycare for your kids if you are a stay at home parent, or no way to pay the bills if you are a working one. As long as you’re relatively healthy, you can get quite a bit of insurance for not very much a month. Suicide does NOT nullify life insurance. All policies have different clauses and conditions, but the large majority just require you to have a policy for one year prior to the suicide to prevent people from getting it who are already planning suicide. Denny wasn’t even approved for life insurance in most cases because of Crohn’s disease. He tried yearly and did the whole physical and everything. There were a few policies who would cover him but it was a very small amount and he’d have to pay close to $1000 a MONTH. Crohn’s doesn’t necessarily kill you, but the complications from Crohn’s can, mainly Sepsis. That is what he had when W was 10 days old and they told me he was going to die. So minus the Crohn’s I would be able to get several hundred thousand dollars at minimum. I would be able to live off of that for a very very very very very long time and not have to worry about providing. So THANK YOU to those who have helped. I’m constantly sobbing over it because I’m embarrassed that I need the help but also grateful. So grateful. Thank you so much. However you have helped. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ Any friends who do insurance... advertise yourselves here 👇👇👇and get everyone on a policy! And message me if there’s anything here that Needs to be corrected ❤️❤️❤️

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